Posted by Allie Golabek on October 28, 2025
As a therapist who’s passionate about exploring the interplay of humour and therapy, I often find myself amazed by the transformative power of laughter in sessions. Navigating the rollercoaster of emotions and experiences can feel heavy, but incorporating a bit of humour can truly lighten the atmosphere and make our work together easier and even enjoyable. So, let’s take a closer look at how humour isn’t just a side note in therapy; it can actually become a significant part of your healing journey.
Research shows that when humour is part of therapy, clients often feel more engaged and positive about the process. Suddenly, our sessions become more than just a space for deep introspection—they become a safe haven where you can be yourself, quirks and all. One of the joys of incorporating humour into sessions is seeing you connect with your authentic self. If you share a laugh or make a funny observation, it creates opportunities for deeper understanding and meaningful moments. Over time, those “inside” jokes can become markers of your growth, indicating how far you’ve come in your journey.

Engaging with humour can help to strengthen the connection between you and your therapist, creating a safe space for you to explore deeper emotions and experiences. It can serve as a bridge that allows you to move between lightness and seriousness as we work together. Positive emotions and laughter can ease anxiety, allowing you to share your thoughts more freely and honestly. And who wouldn’t want to feel a little more at ease while embarking on the journey of self-discovery?
Humour can be a wonderful resource for navigating life’s challenges, both in and out of therapy. When you learn to embrace laughter, you can use it as a coping mechanism in your everyday life. Whether it’s dealing with stress at school, navigating friendships, or facing family challenges, humour can help you shift your perspective and find lightness, even in tough situations. During therapy, we can explore how laughter can serve as a tool in your toolkit, helping you to feel more resilient and empowered in the face of difficulties.
While humour has incredible potential, it’s essential to remember that timing and context matter. Not every joke will resonate with everyone, and it’s important for us therapists to understand the unique background and preferences of our clients. That’s why we pay close attention to responses and feelings in the room. The therapeutic relationship needs to feel strong enough before we dive into humour, ensuring that we minimize any misunderstandings. If the use of humour does not land well with you, then there is an opportunity where you can practice authentic and assertive communication in a safe space by giving your therapist feedback.
In closing, humour is not just a way to avoid serious discussions; it’s a multifaceted tool for connection and cognitive reframing (think perspective taking!). It enhances the therapeutic alliance and can lead to better outcomes. As therapists, we embrace humour not only as part of personality but as a vital component of our work together. It allows us to connect more deeply, empowering you as you navigate your unique path.
Remember, laughter is not just a pleasant distraction; it’s a key ingredient in building connections, making meaning, and fostering growth. So, let’s laugh together as we explore your journey!
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Toronto, ON, M6S 2Y5
374 Danforth Ave. 2nd Floor
Toronto, ON, M4K 1N8